Photo Credit: Woody Marshall, The Telegraph
This story about gay Georgia teen Derrick Martin just tugs at my heartstrings. When we first heard about him, Derrick had gotten permission from his school district to bring his boyfriend to the prom. Yeah Gay!!
But ever since then, the news hasn't been so great. First we learned that Derrick's parents kicked him out of his home, supposedly because OF THE MEDIA ATTENTION.
Photo Credit: Jason Vorhees, The Telegraph
Then yesterday I read that a student named Amber Duskin (above - with back turned, speaking to Derrick) organized a protest against Derrick outside the county courthouse (full story HERE).
The rally’s organizer, Amber Duskin, sent text messages to high school students Wednesday asking them to show up.
The senior said she asked her high school to return her prom ticket money and does not plan to attend because of Martin.
“I don’t believe in going up there and dancing with gay guys like that,” she said. “It’s also not just him bringing a boy. It was bringing all this attention to it.”
WTF? Amber Duskin supposedly wasn't upset that Derrick is gay - she was upset by all the "attention". Note to Amber Duskin: ORGANIZING A PROTEST brings even more "attention"! Are you really that stupid? No, Amber Duskin, I doubt that you are. So why don't you just say what you really want to say - you hate gay people. After all - you stated you didn't want to "dance with gay guys like that". That is called "homophobia". Learn it ... and OWN it.
Additional Note to Amber Duskin: I have purposefully used your name - AMBER DUSKIN - multiple times so that when some gay/progressive potential future employer or Human Resources person looks you up on The Google, they might just find out what kind of a person you really are. The facts speak for themselves.
Update: I just found a picture of Derrick's boyfriend (via Towleroad) - Richard Goodman...
Seriously, HOW CAN ANYONE HATE ON THESE KIDS?!? Derrick is an honor student with a full scholarship to college and his boyfriend wears flip-flops and plays the trumpet along the train tracks!! It doesn't get more All-American than that!
One More Note to Amber Duskin: Derrick and Richard probably don't want to dance with you either.
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Amber Duskin, Amber Duskin Gay Protest, Amber Duskin Georgia, Amber Duskin GA, Amber Duskin Anti-Gay Rally, Amber Duskin Bleckely County.
Speak it David!
ReplyDeleteMame you are too funny. And when it came to the tags you forgot Amber Duskin douche bag!
ReplyDeleteThis may be the very best post you've ever written. I learned from you what I did not previously know, that
ReplyDeleteDerrick has a full scholarship to college. That is his ticket and bless him. May he never look back. May he go out and create a family for himself as so many have before him.
It is interesting how Constance McMillen's bravery was a catalyst to Derrick's situation, and he has been totally admirable in the way he has carried himself.
Amber Duskin is a douche (is it OK to call women douches?) and Amber Duskin should be ashamed of Amber Duskin.
ReplyDeletebtw-you spelled it Amber DusTin in some of the tags. :)
I don't want this to turn to cyber-bullying and hound the poor self repressed girl to death, but I picked up the story for my blog from you, and I suggest that some others might want to do that, too?
ReplyDeleteLee - thanks for the heads-up, I've corrected them.
ReplyDeleteDaddy Blade - Great idea. And it isn't cyber bullying when we just state the facts. AMBER DUSKIN organized and anti-gay rally. It is public knowledge and was reported by the local media. She was interviewed and made anti-gay statements. AMBER DUSKIN now has to live with the consequences.
We, as a gay "community", shouldn't let these things pass. If she would have organized the same kind of protest about an Asian, African-American or Jewish prom couple people would have FREAKED OUT.
Imagine if she would have said "I don’t believe in going up there and dancing with A BLACK COUPLE like that". That's racism. What she said - "I don’t believe in going up there and dancing with gay guys like that" is homophobia. She said it, she owns it, and now AMBER DUSKIN must deal with the consequences.
FYI, if I'm not mistaken this post is now the #1 result when you Google "Amber Duskin".
whats here name again?
ReplyDeletePremonition: Amber grows up to be a big ole fag hag, and they all laugh about this over drinks at the Urges some Friday night.
ReplyDeleteWhat a snotty lil' country wench. As if Derrick and his beau is going to limit the amount of beer drenched boys who want to ride her as she graduates to her career at Piggly-Wiggly...
ReplyDeleteAmber Duskin has probably had a crush on Derrick since kindergarten and finally realizes why he's never returned her advances...
ReplyDeleteAnywhore - DD, I pasted your post (ooo - that sounds dirty) in my own blog... http://houseoflemay.blog-city.com/all_ambers_are_not_nice.htm
Hugs,
Amber (no, not THAT one) LeMay
Wow, that's just so sad. People make me sick.
ReplyDeleteMan, I'm just going to say it FUCK HER! I feel so bad for him. I didn't even get to go to any high school dance because I didn't want shit like this to happen. Love and let love. All these homophobes hiding behind the attention, get to me like these racists hiding behind their tea.
ReplyDeleteI hope this all works out in a way that Amber Duskin looks a damn fool. I hope his parents loose the love of their son, because they don't deserve it. My heart goes out to Derrick, Constance and every other kid suffering in silence.
Go David.....this is why you are
ReplyDeleteluved.......
Best life has to offer to these two
terrific young men.
Just reading your comment here and got to thinking this is what the right wingnut Tea Baggers were doing yesterday with Sister Sarah.
ReplyDeleteRacist, homophobic and they like guns too.....scare the hell out of me, but never will I go back on being a Progressive.
i bet she's a teabagger. i looked her up and saw david's and joemygod's post on her. i will repost later to help bring awareness that fear and hatred still separate the current generation of kids who will someday be old enough to vote and make decisions.
ReplyDeletewhere is the kid staying? can we sponsor him or something? i got put out in feb. of my senior year and it was hard making it to june but i did it and if i could help someone else in a sitch like mine i most surely would.
xxalainaxx
Great post, David.
ReplyDeleteCould Derrick's bf be any more adorbs??? (A: No, he could not.) I agree with MJ: All the best to both of them.
@ Big Mark 243: LOL!!
The people I don't forgive are his parents. How could they do such a thing to their child? That girl is next. What a horrible way to go through life - like the Teabaggers. As we know, one of them stalks my blog and makes comments.
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